Deep - given her intentions to make the marriage work and leave the A behind, I would give her a little more rope and try to trust her. I would give anything to be in your shoes, and I am actually trying to step away and let my wife do what she wants without trying to control her now, even though she says the M is over and she is trying to figure out if she wants to leave.

Count your blessings, and relaaaaaax.

Also, I agree that your story would go over great at Retrouvaille. I fantasized about being one of the presenting couples since it would mean that we recovered and had a great story to tell just like they did. I hope some day I am in the same position with a great story to tell!


ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline