sandy, I am sorry about your mom. I am dealing with my dad's illness at the moment and I wanted to share with you that everytime I feel I may be loosing him soon, I get more frustrated with H and his behaviour. It's like all the emotion from the one sitch spills over to the other. What I am trying to say is, take some time before you make final decisions. You have a lot on your plate now, take it easy. Wishing you strength, K
It sucks with our parents getting up there in the years to be faced with these inevitable situations. I am a slightly distant alternate helper for my ma. She stands on her head caring for my dad with Parkinson's +. I am not sure how she is doing it. Well, in a way I am but it is just nuts.
But I think the extra heavy emotional load of being there with your mom during that very challenging situation should be dealt with all by itself which you alluded to Sandy. Completely unplug from your sitch w/ H.
I will step up my prayers for U and surely your mom.
