sandy, I am sorry about your mom. I am dealing with my dad's illness at the moment and I wanted to share with you that everytime I feel I may be loosing him soon, I get more frustrated with H and his behaviour. It's like all the emotion from the one sitch spills over to the other. What I am trying to say is, take some time before you make final decisions. You have a lot on your plate now, take it easy. Wishing you strength, K
