If you're going to call her on it - and I think that's in order - let her be the fact-checker on it.
W: You always.... you never..... everyone sees it....
Anters: How did our schedule work out in June? Not rhetorical, I really want to know from you what the schedule was in June.
W: (TBA)
Anters: Why did I come back from Colorado when I did? Not rhetorical, I really wnat to know from you why I did that.
W: (TBA)
If she doesn't report the facts, don't interrupt. When she finishes, "You know as well as I do that's not accurate." Otherwise, don't argue. Point made and no need to argue. But you have given her an opportunity to face up to what really happened, what you really did - not what her p!ssed off perception is. She'll take it or leave it. That you cannot control. But you've unleashed the Truth and Facts into the universe either way.
I like it! Thanks Greek!
What about her saying I'm still selfish and I'm still trying to make myself look better than her...and others' seeing this also?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
