Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

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If you're going to call her on it - and I think that's in order - let her be the fact-checker on it.

W: You always.... you never..... everyone sees it....

Anters: How did our schedule work out in June? Not rhetorical, I really want to know from you what the schedule was in June.

W: (TBA)

Anters: Why did I come back from Colorado when I did? Not rhetorical, I really wnat to know from you why I did that.

W: (TBA)

If she doesn't report the facts, don't interrupt. When she finishes, "You know as well as I do that's not accurate." Otherwise, don't argue. Point made and no need to argue. But you have given her an opportunity to face up to what really happened, what you really did - not what her p!ssed off perception is. She'll take it or leave it. That you cannot control. But you've unleashed the Truth and Facts into the universe either way.