Thanks for your response. I like it. I haven't been taking the bait on any of these responses that she sends to me where she makes accusations, etc. I haven't sparred/argued with her at all! But, I didn't have them for 2 weeks the end of June...we were 6 days in Colorado, then we came back so the kids could spend 3 nights with her, then the kids and I went to Texas for 3 nights. They are going nowhere with me the end of July. And now, it looks like they are going nowhere with me the end of August. I wasn't 50/50 in the past, it was always more one side than the other. But I haven't been like that since the end of last November! She still accuses me of being selfish...again, I haven't been like that since last November! And she accuses me of trying to make myself look better than her...she still accuses me of doing these things...still! She says she sees it and so do others! Notheing could be further from the truth! I know so much more now than I did then, and I'm learning and getting better as more time passes. Should I 'call' her on this stuff, and refute what she's saying about me now...or should I continue to do what I've been doing?
What about this? Should I refute any of this stuff that she's telling me?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
