Trusting, One thing I was thinking about from your sig, too, is that your H moved very quickly with his impulsive OW decision. Bomb to D was quick.
My theory is that the ones who move fastest crash hardest. I'd kind of like to believe that they may have a better chance to recovering. Reality intrudes more quickly and more severely.
My H has been slow but not wavering.
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M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D