Trusting, One thing I was thinking about from your sig, too, is that your H moved very quickly with his impulsive OW decision. Bomb to D was quick.

My theory is that the ones who move fastest crash hardest. I'd kind of like to believe that they may have a better chance to recovering. Reality intrudes more quickly and more severely.

My H has been slow but not wavering.

Last edited by forward; 07/12/09 06:35 PM.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D