Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

Thanks Sandi,

Unfortunately, I am stuck in a car with her and the kids for about 7 hours today.
She is stressed out and angry today and is taking every opportinity to snap, criticize, etc. When I push back

Me: "Wife, there is no call for speaking me that way").

Then she escalates.

w: "Me, me! me! Why are you such a selfish jerk?, why is everything all about you? You've always been like this!..."

Me: What is bothering you? Can you tell me why you are upset?

W:"no. See it is always all about you. You can't understand. You'll never change..."

If I weren't in the car, I would walk away. This is a fight I can never win, so I am just trying to comtrol my anger so I don't lash back at her with the kids in the car.


Ugh