A bit of an update. Have seen the wife a couple of times since the last post. I have been doing really good about not bringing up the R or the future for that matter. Things have been really good in our exchanges with the kids. I have noticed that she seems like she wants to spend more time together. There used to be times where she could not get the kids fast enough and leave. On Friday night when exchanging the kids it was her suggestion that we go and play at the McDonalds playground with the kids for a while. So I did. I was thinking the whole time this is crazy why would she want to be here with me? I still did not bring us up and just played with the kids and felt like I would stay there all night if she wanted. The last two exchanges have lasted about 45 minutes. Talking about the kids and what they did or are doing seems to be going over pretty well. Today is her birthday. I have not called or texted her yet. I think I might later tonight. I guess I feel like these are little signs of improvement and I am grateful for that but I am waiting for something big. I guess that will probably just take a while. Thank you all for your advice. I really appreciate it. RTQ
Me 34 WAW 34 S 3 D 1 Marr. 7 Tog. 8 Bomb 04/11/2009 Left 04/13/2009