Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

[antlers]

Gucci,

I hear what you're saying and it applies in my sitch, too, but wonder at what point is that placating W at the expense of the kids? If antlers wants to be with his kids 50% of the time because he believes it is healthier and/or "the right thing" for THEM, would you still advocate this approach, or is your point that you believe merely by taking this position, she will back off because he's showing her he's listening?

-AlexEN

I really feel this way, but I'm trying to 'lead' also, and get things headed in a more positive direction. I'm kinda torn as to what approach to take. More feedback/advice would sure be appreciated.