Yes, I realised I might create that misunderstanding after I posted. Sorry, the last few posts were made in between dealing with very active kids and work calls, so may have been a bit disjointed.

PDT: I wouldn't care about the money itself no. There's a bit of the "walking on eggshells" element partly since money and fmaily finances were one of W's original complaints about me and how I did not hear any of her concerns (including on financial security).

At least, we're talking about when she's qutting now, not if. Mindset wise I'm ok, used to taking small steps, meeting reversals often etc. As long as things seem to be moving in the right direction, I can still try to be patient.

Btw, does anyone have any experience of WAW (or potential WAW) meeting friend who used to be a WAW and whether it can do any good or ends up as a validation of their actions?


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.