Am I wrong, this sounds like we're creating a jealousy plot line for her to worry about you? Just curious.
NO you are not wrong. I have found when giving advice to people that they go overboard and become OBVIOUS. The WS senses this and the effect is then ruined. He needs to just go out with a woman "friend", have a good time, make the plans as we suggested, give the answers as we scripted and not try to "make" her jealous. We don't know if she will be jealous or not. We do know that he nees to create mystery so that his BS has a chance to "wonder". It is the causing her to "wonder" that starts to turn things around. We don't even know if she will call him about Tuesday or Wednesday yet. We don't want HIM to be sitting around to give HER the chance to cancel and then put him in a tailspin. IF she doesn't call him, if won't matter because he already has plans....
IF she calls him after Tuesday or Wednesday and mentions that she is sorry or forgot, it gives him the opening to say.. "oh that's right, I forgot too. Well I couldnt have made it anyway, so no apology necessary. I forgot too."
He needs to stay on the offensive here. IF his new attitude makes her jealous, then it is a bonus. We will then find out a little more of her TRUE feelings for him. He may have a good time with his friend which could give him more confidence that he doesn't need or want to be with a woman who can't make up her mind. (which is a strong position for HIM to be in)
He isn't on a date. He is on a social interaction.
