People in mlc expect us to be right where they left us when they entered their little private crisis mode. They want to live the life of riley and yet, be able to lash out at "mommy" or "daddy" whenever they feel like it. They don't want us to move on to someone else. We are their possession in their eyes.
Trusting, your xh is lashing out because of the money, but more so because of your friend. Let him simmer in his pot for a while. They all do this when they feel that their control has been threatened and someone else is stepping into their territory. They never stop to consider what they've done in the mix.
Unless I'm really off base, I don't think he'll take you to court. Also, his comment about he furniture....well he got exactly what he wanted and he had better pull out the divorce decree and read it again. He doesn't get any thing else unless you so desire to give it to him out of the goodness of your heart. He's just being a brat....let him be. Continue living your life and enjoying your time w/your children.
Your h is actually getting a very good taste of reality and he doesn't like it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
