how does it put you into a sort of limbo? How about YOU take charge of that and get some storage space or pack the rest of it up and find a place for his stuff to GO....??
Well, not quite ready to acquiesce to it being "his" stuff because a lot of it is very valuable and will be leverage in getting him to settle with me. Once out of my possession that would be harder. Putting it in a storage space he doesn't know about...hmmm...I've thought of that. Would be a bloody battle but may be worth it. I don't want his things (he spent all of OUR money on), I just want decent support and not to have to take his debt.
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So he can get "ugly too"?? WTH? B/C You set a boundary...oh no!! You have no right to do that?? Geez, and he was being so nice and all...
Good Lord, he actually said "but I left you such a nice message wishing you a beautiful day..." He just doesn't get it.
I had a great day with the kids. They are struggling so much in their own ways. I want to really be here for them.