Because think about it this way -- just how much more complicated does that make the DB'ing process if one's goal is reconciliation? Why would she reconcile with someone -- whatever she might want -- whom all of her friends despise as a result of HER fables? What kind of relationship would she expect ME to have with HER friends -- and let's remember, WAW is nothing if not famously true and close to her friends -- knowing what they must think of me, as a result of HER TALL TALES?
Aargh, yes, it is a total set up. Just the other night H told me that one of his friends told him he will never talk to him again if he gets back together with me...well what the f*ck must he have told him/her??????
On the wedding...sh*t, so sorry. There are too many ways to be reminded of our "situations"...
Do you have friends who have been through it and are doing well? I'm starting to think that I need to seek out those people myself.
