It is strange to me, but we WAW's seem to pick OM who are just the opposite of our H's. I'm sure a therapist could have a "hay day" with that one! I don't know if the WAW is trying to get as far from her H in her thought process or what the heck goes on. Why on earth would a woman be the least bit attracted to that type of lowlife? Well.....I don't think it is "him" she's really attracted to. I know I keep going back to her fantasy.....but good grief.....I know she has to have a little intelligence for her to be "your" W.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!