Oh I forgot one thing in response to your last post.
Closure. All of us need closure. We have to accept with these ML'ers that we may never experience it. We have to make closure happen for ourselves. That starts with forgiveness. If we can forgive them for all of what they have done, and that does not mean condone it, we may be able to put some closure on this mess. Forgiveness means basically giving the whole thing to God and letting him take it from here.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
