Hurt, lonely, imo For No Good Reason

[MsMelancoly]

Hi rinserepeat, Sorry to see that you are here. What a story, what a trying time. kat727 has some valid points, I do agree with.

I have to say your BF seemed to be a total arse during his illness. Granted, no one is cheery when sick. If he can't even attempt to fix/work on his own health, I would be surprised if he would really work on anything.

I do find the cat issue a little blown out of proportion & childish on your BF side. But that's just me & I'm an animal lover. That is just part of who I am & I would not change that part of ME for anyone. I would never date anyone who didn't like or want any furkids. I don't know what I would have done without my furkids during my sitch. I can sympathize with you because having to choose would be heart-renching.

Stop bashing yourself! In an R or M it's a 50/50 blame game. So stop taking all the blame. Your BF really needs to man up. Sorry, don't mean to be bashing your BF so. The furkids issue just struck a cord w/me.

Stay strong, this is your life!