Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

GIMA, Gardener & Sandi - thanks for the support and encouragement.

Trying to come up with what to say to H about no more sex. I'm thinking something along the lines of as long as he is involved in an affair, sex will not occur. Any suggestions?

H texted this afternoon: "Hi, how r u?" I texted back (30 minutes later) "Good, how r u?" H replied "ok...i kinda miss you." I did not respond.

Later he called, I did not answer. Then I received a text regarding our cell phone minutes were over the limit and most of the calls were on my phone and we have 5 days left before the next billing cycle. I replied (3 hours later) "ok, I will try not 2 talk 2 much in the next 5 days" H responded ok. No other contact.

I think I handled both textes correctly. Thought it was awfully sweet of H to try and throw me a bone with he kinda misses me...(yes, I am dripping with sarcasm)