sgctxok: Thanks for suggesting The Ultramind Solution. I'll check it out.
Givingitmyall: Yes, I did get a lawyer about a month ago when the wife said that she had contacted one. Right now, the communication about a separation agreement is taking place through the attorneys. The lawyers have just started. I think that it's a really stupid waste of money. So, we are not going to be doing any face to face stuff with the separation agreement. To answer your other question. I don't see any other point where we would have any interaction with each other. That's why I started this thread. I feel like I am in a "damned if I do, damned if I don't" situation.
M 57 W 52 Married 12, Together 14 No kids by this marriage 2nd marriage for both