Ohhh! we have someone from the UK! I've always wanted to see London, been to Ireland twice. I've been on this forum and have my own thread. Haven't been around much lately..still trying to get my life in order. Anyway: Hi and welcome to hell. Regarding your above post, kick starting your relationship again, I wouldn't dwell on that too much: You will drive yourself insane. You don't want to go there. Yes, take advantage of the opportunities when they present themselves, but DO NOT force the issue. I've been mudding along myself, it's been slow, and it's not easy. Still have some REALLY bad days, like....today! That guy from New England does have a good story. Tough odds, but not impossible. It's a long ride, so buckle up. hope this helps a bit.