Since I am not communicating with her, I have no way to read her face, eyes, or body language. I have no idea what she is thinking, how she is reacting to the situation, or if she is even devoting any real mental energy to the situation beyond her desire to get out and get over it.
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I simply have no freaking idea about what is going on in her life.
And none of this matters b/c these are HER things/issues. You work on YOU. Without any expectation from her or concern about what affect your actions may or may not have on her. The reason you don't care is b/c it doesn't matter - things you cannot control.
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I guess that I am splitting hairs when I regard the self-help aspect of this program vs. the divorce busting/repair the relationship aspect. Intellectually, I know that they are one and the same and that you probably cannot have one without the other.
Yep.
As far as her interacting with you, she is going to have to talk to oyu about a S agreement, unless you guys only do that through attorneys (by the way, do you have one - if not, get one for your protection).
As for calling her, again, right now I do not think it is a good idea. You just don't sound like you are detached, so your calling her is likely to be seen as pursuit.
When else would you likely have interaction with her?
