I've been DBing for 4 months. I have seen suttle changes in her. 2 months ago she wouldn't even look or talk to me. Now she is talking to me. Pursuing in basic conversations: What are you doing? Where are you going? Can you help me with this? Do you want to watch a movie? Do you want to watch t.v.? Do you want to take the kids to the park?
Don't know if it is manipulation or if she is waking up (a little).
Also their was one specific reason she went to the D lawyer. I pushed her over the edge with a credit card purchase (ironically it was for DB coaching). Our finances is one of her bigger issues with me.
YOu DON"T know if she's being manipulativce or softening up, and neither does nanyone else here.
BuChange usually begins with baby steps that snowball into large change.
You are getting what we call....baby steps.
What are her specific issues with money with you....do you spend too much without talking to her? If so.... don't do it again. Even if it's DB coaching.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
