Thank you for your comments. I really needed to hear from friends who understand the "very scary" part of the MLC. I don't really scare that easy, but I did yesterday.
I am going to leave him alone for a while now. No answering calls or texts or emails. If he wants to take me back to court than let him.
I have to stand up to his bullying. Seems like his only concern is money. It is amazing how they blame their life on us. My son informed me that ex is now aware of my European friend. Maybe this is a reason for some of the anger... who knows.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11