I've found there are no answers... to death, divorce, separation, love, marriage, children, family. Only the now. Worrying about the future takes energy away from the present.
Through this I've learned to speak up, say how I 'feel' rather than swallow emotions, turning myself into an emotional ulcer. With my father's death I found that being there in the mundane ways was worth more than its weight in gold. It's the day to day events that bring the most lasting joy in life.
It's neat seeing your interests and passions expand. And man oh man, I want to learn how to take vacations like you! Perhaps just planning a getaway would be the best.. get up and go with the kids for fun.
Trying to live by my signature below the post helps me immensely to move forward and flourish.. even though I still procrastinate like crazy with anything to do with ex. Guess I still have that passive/aggressive thing going without knowing it!
