She hasn't been home that I know of since the kids went with my parents.

I did call her this morning just to touch base on what's happening with the kids. She did say she was going to come by to do some laundry.

Had my second IC appointment yesterday. I'm not sure what I'm getting out of it other then venting. I guess it's better to vent to my IC versus my family and friends. I'm sure they are getting sick of hearing about my situation.

My youngest son is taking this a lot harder then my other two kids. It makes me so pissed off at my W how selfish she is being right now. My sister called me yesterday to let me know that my son called W and was asking her why she is doing this to our family. He asked her why she wont go to MC to try and work this out. I'm not sure what she said to him other then she doesn't think MC will help, and that she wasn't willing to try it. Like everyone else he doesn't understand why.

I'm thinking about taking a couple vacation days and going up to see the kids next week.

Had a great day out on the lake with a couple of friends. Then went out for a couple of drinks, and listened to a live band attempt to play some music.Man they were awful, but it was entertaining.

As far as getting a divorce, I'm not gong to rush anything. I'm not in a hurry to give W half of my net income.

Paul

Last edited by whereami; 07/11/09 04:44 PM.

me 34
W 37
three kids 9 13 17
married 14 years together 15
well the bomb has been dropped a few times
most recent was early June