Hi trying, I replied partially (kind of) in your thread smile.

She broke off the A before the weekend, but not the "friendship". As of now, and I mean today, she has not broken off contact - as mentioned in my thread.

To some, that is breaking a cardinal rule, and it's not a small thing to me. But I think you'll know in your sitch if your W ever had a change of heart (positively), you'll know the difference in a million ways. Well, in a million ways my W has shown such an about turn that I was loathe to rock the boat. The overall situation was such that there was so much to be thankful for.

I'll post a short update in that thread.


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.