Has anyone else out there become the center of a rumor mill that they are involved in an affair for the WAS to justify what they are doing? Pisses me off, could not be a bigger lie!
Shocked, it won't take long for people who know you to see that for what it is. The truth has a way of coming out. Let it go. Answer honestly if asked.
Keep the faith. "All things work together for the good to them that love the Lord". Don't let this discourage you. Remember, focus on you and the kids. Those are the only things you can control right now.