And of course, he doesn't acknowledge that he was impossible or demanding. Only that I didn't help him enough. I don't know what to do about it. You can't force someone to see what they don't wish to see. For him it's about the cat. For me it's so much more. It may look impossible. But if we still love each other, I believe it can be worked out. The poster above said for him it's not about options. That apears to be the case despite he admits he loves me still. I gave him several months to reflect in hopes that he would look at the situation differently. But he is still stuck on the cat thing. I'm glad he's feeling healthy. Maybe in more time, he'll consider how his health situation affected our relationship. ?
