And that's not just my perspective. My sister cried when she was here for xmas and saw how he was treating me. My 3 closest friends all said he had become intolerale. I would excuse it due his illness, but no one was very sympathetic since he woudln't get help. He turned into a cranky demanding bossy person, and that is not who I spent 31/2 yrs with. This happened over the time he was sick and just worsened. Now he recently said he didnt' like when I was quiet and sulky. I guess I became quiet and sulky because my r had become so dysfunctional and one sided.
