ME, a flaw???? Surely you jest....you want them in alphabetical order? I am not looking for perfection.....far from it. As long as the good outweighs the bad, then I am all in to at least continue the journey. kerry, you wrote something on your thread about "the rest of my life" and I did not comment on it. When I did read it, i hesitated. I guess the last year or so has affected my long term goals. I am not sure the rest of our lives is attainable. I used to be all about the rest of our lives.....now it is one day at a time. Recently some friends and i were talking about relationships and one lady mentionned that her brother who is my age just married a 28 year old....roughly 20 years difference. the general consensus was that the long term viability of the relationship was questionable. My response was that the long term viability of any relationship is suspect....so why even sweat it.