Thinker ~
OUCH! What is she thinking???? Ok - nevermind going there.

BUT ~~~ I agree with Sara about "Don't want to go to Retro? Have a new boyfriend? Good bye." And I do NOT think you should leave the boyfriend stuff OUT. Verify it and show your teeth. This is boundary time for Mrs. Thinker. Somehow she thinks she can get away with this - this isn't her first rodeo - and you must show her once and for all that Thinker is not going to stay married to someone who treats him and his family this way. She's going to have to straighten up and fly right, or go. Like a Big Girl.

If you ask me, you have enough in your phone records and that text to bring it to the table. I mean....is THAT acceptable????? I wouldn't have it, but that's me. Puppy will be here in about 8 seconds to figure that one out for you.

Bottom line ~~~ show your teeth this time and make her face up to the mess she is making.

Grrrrr.
Cheers ~~~

PS - Coach sitting here next to me adds: You've just been hit by another roadside bomb. Be careful of things that trigger YOUR emotional outbursts. You were raw before and just beginning to heal a bit ~ this rips the scab off and you might be surprised by how short your wick is at this time. Be careful.


Me45 H46
T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



Happily ever after is one day at a time.