Yes. I think this is fair to say. At the time he moved I felt right & thought he was acting crazy over the cat. But I did spend a lot of time thinking it thru and it's true, I did not take him seriously on the issue and he did feel disrespected. I have acknowledged that. I have apologized. I can't rehome pets. I can promise these are the last. But you are probably correct to say he may wonder what's next if I did this. I was wrong. I went about it wrong. I caused this wonderful man whom I loved to leave. I did underestimate what it meant to him in principle. I KNOW he can be used to the cat, he lived with 2 b4. Therefore I wish to show him I would not disrespect him on other issues and I would take him very seriously from here. I have learned a painful lesson about him. I would not repeat it. Wish I could utilize the time machine and do things differently. Now I have very little contact with him and no idea how to show him he could trust me. There is another side to this which affected the situation. I will post more about it soon. Because it better explains how we got to this place. thanks for your input. It's painful but I know it's true.
