Hey John -

No matter who you connect with, there will always be something that is not perfect. I would even imagine that NGF may have something she sees in you that is a slight flaw. You take the good with the bad.

BTW... Coincedently, a gal I have been chatting with has an X husband from Montreal. Oh, and she approached me first. She is from Malaysia. I am starting to see a SE Asia pattern now. Life is funny at times.