DO NOT SAY THE THINGS COACH TOLD YOU TO SAY ABOUT THE BIGGEST LAWYER...ETC.
Oh, no, by all means, DON'T use the advice from the couple that actually WORKED, where BOTH the left-behind husband AND the running-away wife said that it worked. no siree -- just stick to the theory.
(yes, I'm being sarcastic).
Two very different approaches, J. Your call. But from where I sit, you've been "stuck" for four months, and after even all that time, she's now wanting to move FORWARD with legal stuff.
SG, I thought DBing was about doing what works, and tossing aside what isn't??