What are you goals...are you wanting divorce advice...or save your marriage advice?
Save your marriage advice:
Talk with your wife. Except let her talk. Don't get defensive. Tell her you want to listen to what she has to say. Don't commit to anything. Simply say no you don't want the divorce.
Then really listen. Ask a couple questions about her FEELINGS...so you understand really well. Then tell her you are going to take some time to think about what she has to say. Be vague. No commitments about the day you'll get back to her or divorce ideas. DO NOT SAY THE THINGS COACH TOLD YOU TO SAY ABOUT THE BIGGEST LAWYER...ETC.
Come back with what she had to say...we can help you 'DB' it. Sandi will also have some good ideas.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
