Hey Mike, nice to hear that you are doing ok. Keep an eye on your mom.....
The "I am hear should you need to talk" issue has come up with me as well. I have the same reaction as you do. She lost that privilege a while ago. I have to admit however, that should my XW have some type of problem, I would be there for her in spite of all that has transpired.....
Hang in there buddy...if you want to write, we will read!