Hey BBJ, I have not seen the Rodanthe movie but i have seen the "i wish you and x would be together" a couple of times. like you, it gets me each time. I would not say it pisses me off but I am diappointed at my x's selfishness as well. However, the damage is done and that is the past. I think the best we can do is damage control. I try to talk it out with my daughter....somehow. Thankfully, I have not had a recent reoccurence, which does not neccesarily mean she does not think about it. It is very tough.....I sometimes wonder if the kids are as open with their feelings with our WASs? I am hopeful that if the kids see us happy that the other feelings will slowly dissipate. My XW comes from a broken marriage and I remember her telling me way back that she held on to the hope that her parents would get back together for a very long time. Hope you have a nice weekend BBJ.
