No, you aren't missing something. I allowed myself to be "outmanuevered" and by choosing to honor the promises I made, I have what appears to me to be a no-win situation.
Last sex: 04/06/1997 Last attempt: 11/11/1997 W Issues "No Means No" Declaration: 11/11/1997 W chooses to terminate sex 05/1998 I gained 60, then lost 85 pounds. Start running again (marathons)
