Don't worry, I took what you said w/a grain of salt. However, I think I did the right thing due to other reasons I didn't mention here.
I sent XH an e-mail asking him to confirm receipt and I found it strange that I didn't hear from him anymore. I thought that he would reply perhaps next week. I almost got a shock when he phoned me yesterday! He has not done that for over one year apart from a few months ago when he had to go to hospital. He just talked as if he had gone away for the week-end and wanted to let me know he got there safely. He said that he had problems with his Internet provider and wanted to let me know he received the money. He said "Thank you" in the language I speak, which surprised me no end and I said "it is my pleasure". Then he asked me how I was and I said fine and asked him how he was and he also said fine. That was it since he talked from a cell phone. He sounded much happier than before.
Although he is not my responsibility anymore I am still more at peace that he won't ride a motor bike anymore. I guess I still love him!
I wish you a lovely week-end and hope your weather is more summery than ours. However, next week summer is supposed to return. Take care.
