Why do you think your H never told you he was closing you out of acc?
From what I`ve read in your recent posts he seems to be drifting back towards you. It`s probably subconscious on his part. But I bet the OW noticed!
Could she have put pressure on him to close acc? Was he afraid to tell you knowing that you could get mad and he couldn`t face the music?especially if he is re establishing his feelings for you.
My H has done something similar to me.(No OW anymore though and we are living together)Stole my credit cards and denied he had done it but later admitted it under gentle interogation from me(I used torture techniques in the past: it doesn`t work!). I thanked him for telling me the truth. Didn`t ask for them back. Applied for credit card under my name. And later understood why he did it.
I was so glad I didn`t do Old Me! Old Me would have bitten the head of him for doing such a lousy thing! New Me knows that H hates funding my cell phone through the credit card(its about the only thing I use C Card for) because I bitch about him to my sister ALL THE TIME on the phone.
New Me declared end to Bitch Fest last night.
So stand back(though I suspect you have already). You`re dbing is fantastic.You`re fantastic. Your H can see that.
Maybe this is not your H taking another step towards separation. Maybe he`s under pressure from OW.
Or maybe there`s another legit reason there that you can figure out.
