What if you took the opposite tack? Ok, you don't want to go to Retrouvaille, you have a new boyfriend, have a nice life!
Sara, I think that is exactly where I am going, although I think I will keep the new boyfriend out of it for now. If it ends now, I want to stay clean and clear of the mud of snooping.
but...
"OK, you don't want to go to Retrouvaille, then let's go talk to a mediator..."
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.