Sorry to hear that, T. That is the problem in a nutshell, there are an infinite number of potential partners out there. If she wants one, it doesn't take long to find one. Has she always been so self-centered?
I have spent quite a bit of time pondering that recently.
I am not sure about self-centered, but...
She does not want to take responsibility for herself, her happiness, or her actions.
She wants other people to make her happy.
She wants to do what she wants to do, and she does not want to face the consequences.
If she does something that ends in a mess, she expects wants someone else to clean it up / bail her out.
Given now, I am focused on her negative aspects, and I am definitely in a glass house throwing stones, but...
I am now clearly seeing the number of times she did something on a whim (get over her head financially, etc), and then had someone else (her father, me) bail her out.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
