misshim,

I'm sorry your D4 had such a tough time the other night. It's hard at any age, but I can't imagine when they are little. I agree that what you di was good for her, and that's the bottom line.

I wish I had some great insight about his wanting to hang out and asking you to rub his shoulder etc. I don't. I don't know what they think and in alot of regards I've given up trying to figure it out.

It's got to be tough on you that he asks you out to dinner and then pays the L to proceed. I know that you want to believe that his invitation means something more than it may. On the upside, regardless of the final filing, if you can (and choose to) be his friend, things could play out down the road. I don't know if I would even entertain the idea myself, mostly b/c it puts the focus somewhere other than on you.

I know you're stretched really thin with all that's going on, but what is one really nice thing you could do for yourself this weekend?

Thanks for asking about me. I'm just trying to get my self together here, dealing with alot with D's etc.

HUGS