I just (earlier this evening) ran across evidence of what looks like another EA (PA?) between Mrs. Thinker and OM2 (a new one...)
She's hiding things again, and texting a lot and I found a series of text messages between her and OM with a lot of innuendo, including one where she says to him "Don't worry, I'm deleting all of the messages" (Oops, I guess she forgot to delete that one... )
If so, this would explain the sudden change in her attitude toward Retro, her sudden inability to sleep while in the same bed with me, and other recent strange behaviors.
I am hoping that I am wrong, and this is a misunderstanding on my part, but I'm not going to count on it. Time to verify (quietly).
Right now I am not even all that emotional - just thinking to my self "Man, if this is the case, I am so DONE, FINISHED, OVER THIS"
If this is truly who she is, then I really am not interested in being married to her any more.
No changes or actions right now. I do hope I am wrong, but there was no mistaking it - there is a huge number of new texts between her and a man that I don't know.
[censored]!!!
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
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