A Wife that has come back? Post Affair feelings ,,

[Deep]

Thanks for the advice again.

the detachment part is where I'm afraid I'll lose sight of where the line is. And yes, I've reached the point where I'm ok with myself whatever happens.

My fear (or big part of it anyway) was really on the harm she could do herself, given teh history ...

I had a talk with W - turned out much better than I expected (in some ways). Will wrap up with her and post here for comments.