You might have to just tell her when she gets into that mode (listen to her though..) but if its the same old R talk as the R talk the night(s) before "hey I get it" and walk away or say "I understand .. *nod* well I gotta run I have plans". You are definitely in a place to be less available. She knows you don't want a divorce but right now you don't have too much time for someone who doesn't want to work on their marriage. She has to see that. Sometimes she will try to get in a last word or say something to grab your attention when you do that but just say bye and go about your business. It's pursuing on her part actually.
