I would lock the doors and turn off the lights. Put her in the doghouse. In DR or DB, there was one scenario where the H put his foot down about the W's late night partying. That was able to get respect from her.
She's a mother after all and it's time she acted like one. If your W was a teenager, would you let her do all the things she's doing now? So she wants to fast track the D. So what? Do what you want and should do.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.