The last time that my W and I spent some time together and talking was a week ago. Since then there has been a little email communication between us. I called her today about the marriage retreat that she suggested for next Saturday for us. I called to find out if she wanted me to sign us up for it since they called me back about it. I had to ask her first since she was going to try and swap the work day with some one else. Well its a no go - she couldn't find anyone to work for her.
Now here's my dilemma - one of the other things she mentioned was for me to book a weekend away in the next couple of weeks. Just the two of us. With us having so little communication at this point would it be a good idea to book it. I spoke to her boss today in the event that I do book it, and we will let her have off the Friday and Monday for the weekend.
I feel like I'm in a bind here - if i book it - she tells me I'm insane that she's not going, or if I don't book it then I get you couldn't even do one of the things that I suggested.
I could use some feedback hear on this. Thanks everyone.
Me 35 W 30 S 3 M 7 : T 13 yrs Separated 2/20/09 My Story