DON'T ANSWER HIS CALLS. DON'T let him put the exposure back on you again. If he tries, say something like the above, or even just a "I'm not going to apologize for sticking up for myself, so please don't mention it again -- this is YOUR mess, YOU clean it up."
Puppy - I just re-read your post. I think the above may be what I should say if it comes up again. I just need to memorize it!
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10